A Cheap Parenting Moment

Okay, so I know Peter and I aren’t the world’s cheapest parents.  We didn’t cloth diaper, we bought brand new nursery furniture and we (a.k.a I, Elise) have been known to splurge on unnecessary kids bed and bathroom decor items on occasion.

However, we did recently have a pretty spectacular cheap parenting moment.

Everyone, I’d like to you meet…

Our new backyard playground!  (Deluxe Rainbow play system, this is not.)

When we moved in, this spot in our yard was supposed to be a rain garden.  However, the house having been vacant for nearly a year previous to our purchasing it, the rain garden had essentially become a weed garden.

This is a picture from 2010.  Lovely, isn’t it?

Anyway, a couple years ago we dug up all of the worthwhile vegetation and planted it elsewhere thinking we’d make this into a fire pit area.  The front yard landscaping ended up taking priority though, so we kinda let the fire pit idea go, which might not have been the most brilliant plan, because weedy area, minus the few good plants holding things back, equals SUPER weedy area.  So this year before the weeds could get out of hand again, Peter decided to put a tarp down over everything.  And since we needed something to hold the tarp in place, we figured we’d use what we already had on hand to make it a little play area, just for this year (hopefully).

And what did we have on hand?  Well, that brings us back to our cheap parenting moment.  We had a found-by-the-side-of-the-road Little Tykes play structure and an also-found-by-the-side-of-the-road turtle sandbox.  Uh, huh, that’s right.  Someone actually left this beauty out for the taking.

I’m not exactly sure how the whole cheap-parent point system works.  Anyone know if we qualify for some bonus points since our turtle doesn’t even have his eyes anymore?

Naturally, the girls think their new play area is the best thing ever.  Alethea is always begging to play in the backyard now.  And Lydia?  Well, she gets her ‘I’m big stuff’ face every time we help her climb up into the play structure.

I have to admit, seeing grins like that for the price of a tarp and a little manual labor, makes me think I should try the cheap parenting thing more often.  Makes me and my checking account feel all warm and fuzzy inside.

Dyeing Easter Eggs

I have many fond memories of my brother and I dyeing eggs every Easter at my grandmother’s house.  We were true artists, with egg shells for canvases.  I recall trying various techniques, like dipping in multiple colors, wrapping them with rubber bands or sticking stickers on them before dipping them, dripping or even rubbing food coloring on them.  True, some of them we took a step or two (or three or four) too far and they ended up awful shades of mottled brown, but some of them were quite beautiful.  My grandmother was sweet enough to humor us well into our teenage years, always making a big batch of hard boiled eggs and glorious shades of dye each Easter for our yearly experiment, even though she firmly declared that the most gorgeous eggs where the ones you put into only one color and just left there!

But where’s the fun in that?!

So, this year, with much excitement, I prepared for my girls’ first annual egg dyeing event.  Being the mess-a-phobe that I am, I was a little concerned about the project, but then I found a terrific tip on Pinterest – instead of using spoons to move the eggs in and out of the dye, put the egg into a wire whisk.  The whisk forms a little protective cage around the egg so that your toddler can swish and dip and take the egg in and out to their heart’s content!

Thanks to that little tip, Alethea absolutely loved egg dyeing, because she could do it all by herself.  She kept saying, “Another egg, please!”

As you can see, she took her task quite seriously…

I think we’ll probably use the wire whisk technique for years to come.  It’s virtually fool-proof, as long as your child understands that the goal is to keep the egg in the water.  If, however, your child for some reason thinks that it is more fun to dip the egg into purple dye and then madly wave the dye covered egg/whisk combo around in the air, the egg will still be unharmed, but be prepared to wash purple spots out of your husband’s favorite blue jeans.

Poor Lydia had her egg dyeing privileges revoked after just one egg and was downgraded to an empty plastic cup with eggless whisk.  Oh well, there’s always next year, Sweetheart!

In the end we had a dozen pretty eggs to complete my Easter centerpiece.  And yes, I did a bit of experimenting with the food coloring, but I think my favorite egg of the day was Alethea’s first yellow one that she worked on for a long time.

I guess maybe Grandma was right after all… the plain bright ones are the best!

To Seattle and Back Again Part 1

Call us adventurous, call us crazy, but on Saturday morning the 10th we hopped on a Seattle bound airplane with the girls for our ‘spring break’ vacation.  We thought the early morning airplane ride might be a lot for the girls to handle, but surprisingly they did pretty well.   Since food is one of the only things that keeps Lydia’s interest for long periods of time, we let them both eat as many snacks as they wanted.  Consequently, we went through almost an entire bag of Teddy Grahams, but that along with books and a nap for Lydia and a Clifford DVD on Daddy’s laptop for Alethea kept the girls busy for the duration of the three hour flight.

After we arrived, we got our rental car, picked up a pack ‘n’ play from Peter’s cousin’s house and then headed to my aunt’s house in Tacoma to get settled in.  We had dinner at a fun restaurant in Puyallup called the Powerhouse.  The building was constructed as a power substation for the Puget Sound Electric Railway in 1907.  Good food, cool atmosphere.  We recommend it.

Alethea didn’t eat much though, and we discovered why shortly after we arrived back at my aunt’s place.  “I need to throw  up,” she told me as I was getting the girls ready for bed.  And thus began the worst night of vacation ever that involved not one, but two sick little girls, multiple bedding changes and not much sleep.  Uggg…. “Tomorrow will be better,” I kept telling myself.

Sunday morning came and the girls were done being sick, so that was good.  The weather was overcast, but not pouring rain, also good, so we decided to try Point Defiance Park.  We originally thought we might visit the zoo there, but Alethea was fairly adamant that she didn’t want to go.  Keeping in mind the $30 in wasted admission fees that preceded our disastrous tour of the Nashville Zoo on our last vacation, we nixed the zoo plan and went for the free Owen Beach instead.

Owen Beach, Point Defiance Park, Tacoma, WA

The beach was nice.  Gorgeous scenery.  I’m sure with better weather we could have stayed all day, but it was in the low 40s and we hadn’t brought mittens for the girls, so once they got whiny, we decided to try to find lunch.  At first Alethea balked at the idea of another restaurant, but finally she conceded that if we could find a quiet place that served peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, she’d be okay.  A quick consultation with our GPS revealed that we were less than two miles from a place called the Antique Sandwich Co.  I pulled out my cell phone and with a brief call confirmed that they indeed served PB&J.   On the ride over, we wondered what parents on vacation used to do before Garmin and iPhone and crossed our fingers that the Antique Sandwich would be quiet enough for Alethea’s taste.

It was perfect!  Not only was it quiet, with PB&J on the menu, but it had a stage that was covered in toys!  The girls played happily while we waited for our food and then we dug in.  Alethea didn’t eat much again, but Lydia thought the gourmet peanut butter with all natural raspberry jam was pretty doggone good.

Antique Sandwich Co, Tacoma, WA

After lunch we headed back to my aunt’s house for some much needed naps.  That evening we ate at my aunt’s house and got to visit with my aunt and uncle, as well as my Grandma Frances who lives with them.  We were really glad to be able to see them and for my grandmother to get to spend some time with the girls.  Although I enjoyed visiting with my family, I sensed that Alethea wasn’t having a blast.  “Tomorrow will be better,” I told her, “We’ll do something really fun!”

Monday arrived rainy and cold.  That further cemented our initial plan, which was to visit the Children’s Museum in downtown Tacoma.  After talking it up to Alethea and telling her how much fun it was going to be and how there were going to be lots of things for her to play with, we drove downtown, found a place to park and walked over to the museum, through the front doors, only to discover that one feature of the museum we hadn’t known about was Member’s Only Mondays.  Groan!  After declining to purchase a $100 annual membership, we headed back out into the rain, to make the six block trek to the History Museum.  Alethea decided to punish us at that point by refusing to be carried, so we trudged slowly down the sidewalk, to arrive at the State History Museum’s locked doors marked “Closed Mondays”.  To make a long story short, Peter ended up carrying a screaming Alethea eight blocks through the rain back to the car, where we buckled in two screaming girls and drove to a playground where we mused over the fact that we’d spent a bunch of money on plane tickets to find ourselves on a wet playground in 40 degree weather while our friends back home basked in an un-Minnesota-like 70s and sun.  “Next year, we’re doing Florida,” we agreed.

The one bright spot on Monday happened that evening.  It really was wonderful watching my grandmother play with the girls.  She truly enjoyed them and I’m so glad they got to see her.

Alethea, Lydia and Great Grandma Frances

Monday was our last day in Tacoma.  “Let’s get an early start,” said Peter that evening. “I’ve checked on everything we want to do in downtown Seattle and it’s all open on Tuesdays, so if we get packed up fast enough we can visit the aquarium and then spend some time walking around Pike Place Market.”

“Sounds good,” I replied.  “Tomorrow has got to be better…”

Pajama Party

One of Alethea’s favorite things to do after we put her in her room for the night is to dress her stuffed friends and baby dolls in clothes from her own wardrobe.  The other night they had a pajama party:

Her friends must have taken the phrase ‘party animals’ too seriously though, because Alethea was forced to move to the hallway in order to get some shut-eye.

And now, I’m off to find a quiet corner myself… night night!

O Elise, Where Art Thou?

You probably haven’t been thinking this, but just in case you were, sorry for not posting much lately.

I have to admit, I’ve been a bit blue for the past week and a half.  Not for any particular reason.  I mean, everything is fine, nothing tragic to report.  I think I do know what’s bugging me though…

A week and a half ago Sunday was Lydia’s last day of breastfeeding.  I thought that after being a pregnant and/or breastfeeding mom for the past three years and seven months straight through, it would feel really fantastic to be just me again.  I thought I’d be flying high.

I feel completely out of whack.

I read this post by another mommy blogger though, and it really helped.  I mean, not helped me magically snap out of it, but helped me realize that I’m essentially going through withdrawal.  Apparently my brain is still craving the high created by the lovely ‘bonding’ hormones that your body produces when you feed your baby.

So if it’s not enough that Lydia was mad (and I mean MAD!) when I dropped her last feeding, apparently my body is punishing me too.

All that’s left to do is to keep telling myself what I’ve been telling Lydia.  We’re all done.  I’m sorry you’re sad, I know it’s hard, but we are all done.  And really, it’s for the best.

 

Playing Outside

This morning the girls and I got out for some fresh air:

Alethea’s vehicle of choice was her Disney Princess ride-on toy.  She dumped sand all over it this past summer and now most of the bells and whistles no longer function, but the wheels still go around and really, that’s all you need.

Lydia took the Cozy Coupe for a spin.  Or rather, she sat in it and watched Alethea cruising around the driveway.  Give her a few months and I’m sure she’ll get the whole pushing with the feet thing.

Alethea has had a growth spurt lately.  Look at those legs!  I’d say this girl just might get a new bigger ride (a.k.a. tricycle) for her birthday!

For the life of me, I cannot think of anything cuter than a chubby baby in snow pants.  It’s just. so. doggone. adorable!

Artisan Bread in Five Minutes A Day

I’m not a baker.  Not by any means.  Other than a repertoire of a half dozen well rehearsed cookie recipes, I pretty much stick to boxed mixes and straight from the bakery goods.  However, I do love fresh baked bread, I mean, who doesn’t?  Right?  But despite the fact that I periodically toyed with the idea of taking up bread making, my lack of baking finesse and the amount of time it takes to make bread from scratch have always deterred me.

Until now, that is…

For Christmas, I asked for and received a new cookbook: Artisan Bread in Five Minutes A Day.  (Thanks, John and Denny!)  I gotta tell you, I love this book!  I’ve been making fresh bread several times a week ever since I got it.  Me… baking bread… on a regular basis.  Crazy!

The premise is simple, you mix up a large batch of dough (it takes me about 10 minutes using my stand mixer, but you can do it by hand too), and then store the dough in your refrigerator for up to two weeks, just taking out enough to make one loaf whenever you feel the need for some freshly baked goodness.

It’s ridiculously easy, no-kneed bread that makes your house smell divine!  And it’s tasty too!

(This is the first loaf I ever made.  Well, actually it’s just part of the loaf.  The girls and I got about half way through it before I remembered to take a picture!  This bread is so good!)

There is a basic white bread recipe the authors recommend you try first, but then there are several chapters of variations and other types to try.  I’ve made three different kinds so far and they’ve all been great, even when I’ve neglected to perfectly follow the instructions.  Eventually I’m planning on trying my hand at the Pecan Caramel Rolls.  They sound amazing!

So anyway, if you love freshly made bread, but hate the time commitment it demands, this book is for you.  I highly recommend it!

The Hallmark-Florist Industrial Complex (a rare post by Peter)

OK, so that title might get my login for the blog deleted, but I wanted to say Happy Valentine’s day to my talented and stunningly beautiful wife Elise. I am at work and short on pictures but I did find this one from our engagement photos 6 years ago:


(don’t let her tell you otherwise, she still looks that good)

Happy Valentine’s day, babe. Thanks for loving and supporting me unconditionally and for being such an awesome mom for our girls. I love you so much.